2018-2-5 CBMC中英文週一嗎哪

 
From: "Chinese Manna" <samy@brazilianautoparts.com.br>
Subject: 2018-2-5 CBMC中英文週一嗎哪
Date: February 5th 2018 2:14a.m.

                     週一嗎哪 

服事全球工商界

2018-2-5

By Rick Boxx

分擔彼此的重擔

THE BENEVOLENCE OF BURDEN-BEARING

在工作上發生重大挑戰的變動期間,我問一個員工說:「你還好嗎?」 她回答說:「還可以。」我看著她的眼睛再問一次:「你真的還好嗎?」因為從她的行為舉止當中,我發現工作上所帶來的不安已經對她產生負面的影響。

 

隔天,她淚流滿面來找我,對我說,昨天我問她那個問題觸動了她的內心,因為那個問題讓她明白我真的在乎她的感受,接著她解釋自己面對變動一些重要的看法,以及現在最困擾她的事。

有一個研究員工福利的公司發現,33%的員工願意換到更有同理心的公司,以及40%的員工願意為真正替他們的身心靈健康著想的公司加班。

 

這是一個很有趣的發現,因為在商學院的企管課程中,同理心是個不受重視的主題。就算是訓練管理的課程,焦點通常也是放在如何更有成效、更有效率地把事情做好,從來沒有強調員工在工作時的心理感受。

 

同理心被定義為能理解他人的感受和與人分享的能力。在工商專業界,我們很容易忽略別人的感受,因為盡可能地提高利潤和滿足股東才是最重要的。但是真心關懷員工,能提高員工的忠誠度、滿意度以及工作效率,因為他們覺得自己受到重視。

 

聖經新約的加拉太書6章2節教導我們:「你們各人的重擔要互相擔當,如此,就完全了基督的律法。」無論是情感的上的重擔,或是遇到短時間內無法解決的問題而產生的壓力,都是可能會壓垮一個人。有時候,我們可以用特別的、有形的方式來彼此幫忙,其他的時候,我們能做的就是表達自己的關心,這樣就足夠了。我們也許可以告訴他們,我們正在為他們禱告。分擔別人的重擔,是一個讓人無法忘懷的恩惠。
 

願意把別人的需要放在自己之前   無論我們的角色是行政、管理者或是同工,對別人表達同理心能傳達我們真誠的關懷。我們堅固的人應該擔代不堅固人的軟弱,不求自己的喜悅。(羅馬書 151).

 

所不欲,勿施於人。如果你在處一個壓力很大的狀況下,你會希望有人來關心你,幫助你度過難關嗎?弟兄們,你們蒙召是要得自由,只是不可將你們的自由當作放縱情慾的機會,總要用愛心互相服事。因為全律法都包在「愛人如己」這一句話之內了。(加拉太書 5章13-14節).

版權所有2018  非傳統商業網路(前身為純全資源中心)。節錄自和Rick Boxx的純全時刻,這本刊物主要是從基督徒的角度來探討職場上正直這個主題。如果希望知道更多關於這個事工或是想訂閱每日純全時刻,請上這個網站: www.unconventionalbusiness.org. Rick Boxx最新出版的書提供用五個關鍵的神的方法來建立企業。

反省與問題討論

 

第一、總的來說,在職場上你經常看到有人表現出同理心嗎?請描述一下當時的狀況。

 

第二、你還記得有人對你表現出真誠的關懷時,你的感受如何嗎?

 

第三、有一些人天生就比其他人有同理心。你認為自己是屬於哪一類的人:非常有同理心、還算有同理心或者是沒甚麼同理心?

 

第四、如果我們並非天生就很有同理心,要如何在他人遇到困難的時候,變得更有同理心、更為他人的需要著想?

 

備註: 如果你手上有聖經,希望知道更多關於這個主題的經文,請參考:

箴言12章14節、18節

12:14 人因口所結的果子,必飽得美福;人手所做的,必為自己的報應。

12:18 說話浮躁的,如刀刺人;智慧人的舌頭卻為醫人的良藥。

箴言15章4節

15:4溫良的舌是生命樹;乖謬的嘴使人心碎。

箴言16章24節

16:24良言如同蜂房,使心覺甘甜,使骨得醫治。

箴言 20章5節

20:5人心懷藏謀略,好像深水,惟明哲人才能汲引出來。

箴言20章12節

20:12能聽的耳,能看的眼,都是耶和華所造的。

傳道書 4章9-12節

4:9兩個人總比一個人好,因為二人勞碌同得美好的果效。

4:10 若是跌倒,這人可以扶起他的同伴;若是孤身跌倒,沒有別人扶起他來,這人就有禍了。

4:11 再者,二人同睡就都暖和,一人獨睡怎能暖和呢?

4:12 有人攻勝孤身一人,若有二人便能敵擋他;三股合成的繩子不容易折斷。

哥林多前書12章12-20節、26節

12:12 就如身子是一個,卻有許多肢體;而且肢體雖多,仍是一個身子;基督也是這樣。

12:13 我們不拘是猶太人,是希臘人,是為奴的,是自主的,都從一位聖靈受洗,成了一個身體,飲於一位聖靈。

12:14 身子原不是一個肢體,乃是許多肢體。

12:15 設若腳說:「我不是手,所以不屬乎身子,」它不能因此就不屬乎身子。

12:16 設若耳說:「我不是眼,所以不屬乎身子,」它不能因此就不屬乎身子。

12:17 若全身是眼,從哪裏聽聲呢?若全身是耳,從哪裏聞味呢?

12:18 但如今, 神隨自己的意思把肢體俱各安排在身上了。

12:19 若都是一個肢體,身子在哪裏呢?

12:20 但如今肢體是多的,身子卻是一個。

12:26 若一個肢體受苦,所有的肢體就一同受苦;若一個肢體得榮耀,所有的肢體就一同快樂。

 

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